Rubin Fidler

Rubin Fidler ObituaryObituary published on Legacy.com by Silverton Memorial Funeral Home and Cremation Service - Toms River on Mar. 15, 2026.Rubin Fidler, a man whose optimism, playful spirit and intelligence illuminated the lives of all who knew him, passed away peacefully on March 13, 2026, in Brick, NJ, after a courageous battle with Alzheimer's Disease. Born on February 16, 1943, in the Bronx, NY, to Samuel and Sally Fidler, Rubin's journey through life was marked by his zest for living that was truly infectious.A devoted husband to his wife Annette, Rubin's 58 year love story with her remained an inspiration to his daughters, Rachelle and Jennifer. His role as a grandfather to Gabriella, Jack, and Janos was one of his most cherished, as he imparted wisdom and shared countless moments of joy and laughter with them.Rubin's academic pursuits led him to study Accounting at Monmouth College. Later, his career as an Accounting and Finance Executive Recruiter was distinguished not only by his professional achievements but also by those he helped to guide in their careers.A proud Vietnam War veteran, Rubin served his country from 1965 to 1967 with honor. His service was a testament to his strength of character and his commitment to the values he held dear.Sports were a significant part of Rubin's life, and his passion for baseball and football was legendary. He also showcased his athletic abilities on the basketball court during his college years. For over three decades, Rubin was an avid paddle ball player, his competitive spirit shining through in every match. His love for games extended beyond the court, as he was also a formidable chess and scrabble player. His family and friends often found themselves both challenged and delighted by his skillful play in card games.Rubin's legacy is one of joy, and a life well-lived. He approached every day with a cheerfulness that was contagious. His memory will be cherished and his presence deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.Rubin Fidler's life was a tapestry of love, service, and fun, woven with the threads of dedication and passion. Rubin's story may have reached its conclusion, but the chapters he wrote in the hearts of those he touched will be revisited time and time again, with gratitude and love.In lieu of flowers and in honor of Rubin, please donate to Cure Alzheimer's Fund or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.