Doretha Gay

Doretha Gay, affectionately known as “Re,” of Bonham, Texas, died peacefully on March 4, 2026, at the age of 83. Born on October 20, 1942, in Ector, Texas, to Clarence Vernon and Margie Faye (Taylor) Baker, she developed a strong work ethic early in life while helping on the family farm. She attended Ector High School, where she excelled as a talented basketball player. In 1962 she married Jerry Gay. The couple lived for a time in Dallas, where Doretha worked as secretary-receptionist for the Dallas Cowboys football club and was fondly called “Rusty.” In 1975 they returned to Ector to raise their two children before later settling in Bonham. There she worked at the Sam Rayburn Library until her retirement in 2006.

Doretha was a true people person and gifted storyteller whose warmth and humor brightened the lives of all who knew her. A devoted wife, mother, and grandmother, she remained deeply dedicated to her family throughout her life. She enjoyed bargain hunting at garage and estate sales, refinishing antiques, creating floral arrangements, and decorating her home with an impeccable sense of style that reflected her beautiful spirit.

She was preceded in death by her husband of 62 years, Jerry Gay; her sister Wanda Baker Cabell; and her parents, Vernon and Margie Baker. Doretha is survived by her children, Jason Gay and Dr. Madelyn Gay Morris; daughter-in-law Denise Gay; son-in-law Dr. Michael Morris; grandchildren Kelly Jack and Julian Gambrel; her sister Diann Lodwick and husband John; and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and extended family and friends.